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If You Knew Better with Amber Grimes

The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts·9 episodes·Weekly

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You can’t rewrite the past — but you can learn from it. Amber Grimes did exactly that, going from college dropout to Executive Vice President in the entertainment industry with no map, just mistakes and lessons that turned into power moves.

If You Knew Better is where Amber shares that wisdom — alongside artists, creatives, and culture-shifters who open up about the missteps they made, the mindsets that changed everything, and the game they wish they knew sooner. Together, they unpack the highs, the lows, and the pivots in life, career, and relationships — so you either don’t have to go through it, or can move smarter when you do.

Every episode delivers real talk, hard-won insight, and practical gems to help you grow into the version of yourself that knows better… and does better.

Episodes

Latest Episode

Nineteen85 Knows the Difference Between Parenting and Controlling

April 21, 2026 · 1h 4m

In this episode of If You Knew Better , Amber Grimes sits down with Grammy-nominated producer Paul Jefferies aka Nineteen85 (of DVSN) for a powerful conversation on fatherhood, parenting, and personal growth. Reflecting on his journey as a young and single dad, Paul opens up about navigating parental expectations [01:20] , embracing the idea of disappointing your parents as a path to self-discovery [02:44] [06:24] , and unpacking generational differences in parenting styles [10:22] . This episode dives into how modern parents can create space for growth, grace, and understanding [21:28] [25:08] . Paul shares honest insights on navigating early parenthood [33:32] , breaking generational cycles [49:24] , and the role of therapy in personal growth [55:29] , while emphasizing the importance of empowering children to find and use their voices [01:00:43] . This episode offers real-life perspective and actionable wisdom for anyone looking to raise healthier families and become a better version of themselves. Follow Amber Grimes on Instagram: @ambergrimes Follow Nineteen85 on Instagram: @nineteen85 Get Amber's newsletter on Substack Watch this episode on Youtube Thursday at 6pm ET Follow Amber's Boo k Club Get Amber's Book Club Merch Read Amber's Favorite Books See for privacy information.

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Amber Knows You Forgot Who You Really Are

Apr 14 · 25m

In this solo episode of If You Knew Better, Amber Grimes dives deep into self-discovery, identity, and personal growth (00:00), exploring what it means to reconnect with your true self after years of societal pressure and expectations. She reflects on how life experiences, setbacks, and external influences can reshape identity, often leading people to lose touch with their passions, creativity, and purpose (05:27). Through honest insight, Amber highlights the emotional weight of that disconnect and the importance of recognizing it as part of the journey (12:22). Amber encourages listeners to embrace authenticity, reclaim their voice, and rediscover what genuinely brings them joy (21:52), emphasizing that today’s world allows for more freedom to evolve and live multifaceted lives. With practical reflection and empowering perspective, the episode serves as a reminder that growth requires courage, self-awareness, and a willingness to shed outdated versions of yourself in order to step fully into who you’re meant to be.  Follow If You Knew Better on Socials: @ambergrimesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Durand Bernarr Knows Friendship Break Ups

Apr 7 · 1h 9m

In this episode of If You Knew Better, Amber Grimes sits down with Grammy-winning artist Durand Bernarr for a heartfelt conversation about adult relationships, friendship dynamics, and personal growth. Durand opens up about the emotional challenges of friendship breakups, emphasizing the importance of accountability, communication, and honesty in maintaining meaningful connections. Together, they explore how life experiences shape the way we show up in relationships and why being clear about your needs is essential for long-term emotional health. The conversation also dives into self-discovery, evolving friendships, and the difference between genuine support and surface-level connections, highlighting the distinction between real friends and fans. Amber and Duran discuss how change is inevitable and how letting go of certain relationships can be a necessary step toward growth. With vulnerability and insight, the episode encourages listeners to prioritize authentic relationships, practice emotional awareness, and embrace personal evolution. Follow If You Knew Better on Socials: @ambergrimesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Burnedbeauty2018 Knows Narcissistic Abuse

Mar 31 · 1h 18m

In this episode of If You Knew Better, Amber Grimes sits down with empowerment advocate Tonya Renee Meisenbach (Burned Beauty 2018) for a powerful conversation about narcissistic abuse, toxic relationships, and the journey to healing. Tanya shares the deeply personal story of being set on fire by her husband and unpacks the 15 years of emotional abuse she endured. Tanya breaks down the warning signs, red flags, and psychological impact that often go unnoticed. Through her experience, she highlights the importance of self-awareness, recognizing unhealthy patterns, and understanding how trauma can shape relationship choices. The conversation also focuses on healing, personal responsibility, and reclaiming your life after abuse, as Tanya offers practical insight on safely exiting toxic situations and rebuilding self-worth. She emphasizes giving yourself grace, sharing your story as part of the healing process, and embracing self-love as a foundation for growth. Follow If You Knew Better on Socials: @ambergrimesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Amber Knows Why You Can’t Make Decisions

Mar 24 · 27m

In this episode of If You Knew Better, Amber Grimes breaks down the power of decisive action and confident decision-making, challenging listeners to be quick in making choices and intentional about sticking to them. She explores how fear-driven habits like overthinking, hesitation, perfectionism, and avoidance can delay progress and keep people stuck, emphasizing the importance of trusting your instincts and moving forward with clarity. Through personal insights and practical strategies, Amber encourages listeners to embrace imperfection, build confidence, and take control of their choices in both personal and professional life. The episode serves as a mindset reset for anyone struggling with indecision, highlighting how disciplined thinking and consistent action can lead to growth, success, and a more empowered life. Follow If You Knew Better on Socials: @ambergrimesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2 Chainz Knows the Voice in His Head is God

Mar 17 · 33m

In this special live episode of If You Knew Better, Amber Grimes sits down with 2 Chainz at Barnes & Noble in Los Angeles to discuss his new book, The Voice In My Head Is God. The Grammy-winning  rapper and entrepreneur shares the inspiration behind the book and explains how intuition, faith, and self-awareness have guided many of the most important decisions in his life. Reflecting on his upbringing in Atlanta  and the evolution of the city’s hustle culture, 2 Chainz emphasizes the value of humility, respect, and community while navigating success in music, business, and life. The conversation also dives into; his family life, his iconic name change, the untimely passing of his father, admiration for the women in his life,self trust, and how  his personal journey shaped the themes in The Voice In  My Head Is God. Follow If You Knew Better on Socials: @ambergrimes @2ChainzSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Malcolm Mays Knows Financial Responsibility

Mar 10 · 1h 15m

In this episode of If You Knew Better with Amber Grimes, Amber sits down with actor Malcolm Mays for a thoughtful conversation about success, financial responsibility and the realities behind pursuing a career in entertainment. Malcolm reflects on his journey from childhood acting to adulthood, sharing lessons learned about family dynamics, personal loss, and the pressures that come with financial success and public visibility. They highlight the importance of community, accountability, and staying grounded while navigating opportunities in Hollywood. The conversation also dives into financial literacy, social class, and the psychology of money, as Malcolm shares personal experiences growing up in a lower economic environment and learning how financial habits shape relationships and life choices. Together, they explore the importance of patience in financial decision-making, seeking trusted financial counsel, and understanding money as a reflection of time, effort, discipline and much more.  Follow If You Knew Better on Socials: @ambergrimes @imalcolmmaysSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Amber Knows How to Change Your Life | Debut Episode

Mar 3 · 24m

In this debut episode of If You Knew Better, Amber Grimes dives deep into self-discovery, personal growth, and the mindset shifts required to build a fulfilling life. Instead of focusing solely on goals and achievements, Amber challenges listeners to prioritize who they are becoming. She unpacks the power of self-awareness, gratitude, emotional accountability, and intentional living, sharing practical lessons from her own journey of transformation. Amber encourages listeners to mend broken relationships, confront limiting beliefs, and become the source of the love, success, and validation they seek. Through honest reflection and actionable advice, this episode serves as a motivational guide to building confidence, strengthening character, and creating a purpose-driven life rooted in authenticity and growth. Rate, subscribe, comment and share. Follow If You Knew Better on Socials: @ambergrimesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Introducing: If You Knew Better With Amber Grimes

Feb 24 · 1m

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