
Pour Minds Podcast
The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts·423 episodes·Weekly
Quick Facts
Two single Houstonians residing in Atlanta, Drea and Lex are navigating their way through life, friendships and dating. Discussing all the hot topics while getting lit on their favorite wine along the way!
Just like having a good ol' drunk therapy session with your friends, pull up a chair, join the convo and wine down!
Episodes
Latest Episode
October 16, 2026 · 1h 31m
This week on Pour Minds , Lex P and Drea Nicole are holding it down solo, diving headfirst into the chaotic realities of autumn, bad culinary takes, and the fine line between romance and absolute delusion. From dragging the seasonal time change and mourning the cancellation of turkey bacon to debating George Washington’s history and why tomatoes are technically fruits, the ladies keep the energy lighthearted, unfiltered, and nonstop laughs.Things stay just as chaotic as the crew debates their absolute worst-case career nightmares, mixes up a seasonal fall cocktail, and places their predictions for the upcoming Super Bowl halftime show. The conversation quickly shifts to relationship standards as they debate whether you should truly be able to take your partner anywhere, why forced compatibility always backfires, and how to spot the red flags of resentment from day one. And, of course, things get completely out of hand during the bed segment as the ladies debate whether you can truly fall in love with a man's natural pheromones, how a post-sex shower can mean his dick isn't hitting for anything, and reviewing a listener letter about a long-distance best friend who is sending dangerously mixed signals. Pour up and get ready, because between the unhinged stories and the vocal warm-ups, you're definitely going to need a drink before you press play. See for privacy information.
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Oct 9, 2026 · 1h 59m
This week on Pour Minds, Lex P and Drea Nicole are sitting down with rapper, singer, andsongwriter Akeem Ali, and from the second he steps into the room, the energy instantly turnsinto pure, top-tier comedy. Akeem keeps it 100 on the harsh realities of independent touring,why slow ticket sales will make an artist rethink their whole strategy, and the very specific (andhilarious) target audience he relies on to keep his shows packed. Things get nostalgic as Akeem takes the ladies on a hilarious trip down memory lane, openingup about his alter ego, his high school days, and the unexpected setbacks that shaped hishustle. The crew doesn't hesitate to press him on toxic relationship dynamics, either—debatingwhether men ever truly regret losing a good woman. Akeem stands on business with his "factsover feelings" philosophy, insisting nobody is irreplaceable, while Lex and Drea call out the wilddelusion men fall back on when they miss out on a real one.And, of course, things get completely out of hand when they tackle an "expert" claim that menshould bring a woman to climax twice before penetration. Between whole-house inspectionanalogies, "carpet rug burn" arguments, and hilarious audience advice, the room devolves intopure chaos. Pour up and get ready, because before you start inspecting the "back of the house," youdefinitely need a drink in your hand for this one!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Oct 2, 2026 · 1h 19m
This week, Lex P and Drea Nicole are sitting down with comedy legend Ms. Pat, andabsolutely NOTHING is off limits! From her early days in Atlanta comedy to becoming ahousehold name in Hollywood, Ms. Pat gets candid about the hustle, hard work, andbusiness mindset that helped her build the career she has today. Ms. Pat opens up about navigating fame while staying true to herself, settingboundaries with friends and family, protecting her peace, and why everybody doesn'tneed to know your next move. She also gets personal about raising seven children,breaking generational cycles, redefining the American Dream, and the inspirationbehind her new memoir, Miss American Dream. And, of course, things take a few unexpected turns as the ladies get into marriage,dating, bedroom conversations, and why Ms. Pat has absolutely no filter!Pour up and tune in because when Ms. Pat pulls up, you already know it's going to be atime!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Sep 25, 2026 · 1h 50m
This week, Lex P and Drea Nicole are getting real about growing older, becoming more like theirparents, and the things they understand differently now than they did in their younger years. The ladies talk about Lex’s experience visiting the Martin Luther King Jr. museum in Atlanta andwhy revisiting Black history as an adult gave her a completely different perspective. They alsorecap Lex’s birthday celebration, including a disappointing restaurant experience, a night atVisions, and why sometimes the people around you can turn a bad experience into a great night. Plus, the conversation gets into the proper way to sneak food into the movie theater, Lex’slifelong love for Taco Bell, and the things they used to judge people for that they now understanddifferently. From spending money on luxury items to being emotional and vulnerable, Lex andDrea reflect on growth, self-awareness, accountability, and learning to give people—andthemselves—a little more grace. Pour up and tune in.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Sep 18, 2026 · 1h 56m
This week, Lex P and Drea Nicole are back with a solo episode talking life after tour, gettingback into their routines, taking time to decompress and entering a new era for Pour Minds. Theladies also get into business, finances, delegation and the lessons they’ve learned whilebuilding their brands and preparing for what’s next. Then, the ladies sit down with hairstylist and entrepreneur Shara Laurie for a BusinessSpotlight. Shara opens up about starting her hair career at a young age, building a loyalclientele in Atlanta and eventually taking a leap of faith to move her business to Dubai. Sheshares what it took financially to make the move, how she built an international clientele andhow her career has evolved from working behind the chair to traveling the world to serviceclients. Plus, Lex and Drea get into dating, relationships, independence, different dating cultures andthe importance of having the freedom to live life on your own terms.Pour up and tuneSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Sep 11, 2026 · 1h 37m
This week on Pour Minds, Lex P and Drea Nicole are joined by streamer and internetpersonality Jordyn Lucas for an episode that goes completely off the rails before they can evenmake it to the first topic. Jordan gets real about breaking into the male-dominated streaming world, building hercommunity, investing thousands into her production, dealing with viral clips and learning how tosurvive when everything you say can become a headline. She also opens up about leavingAtlanta for Miami, starting over on her own, outgrowing friendships and betting on herself. Ofcourse, the ladies have to get into Jordan’s viral moment with Drake, the six-figure Kelly bag,flying private for the first time and manifesting some of the biggest moments of her career. Butsomewhere between the drinks, roommate horror stories, BBL talk, reasons they could NEVERgo to war and dragging internet trolls, the conversation turns into pure chaos. Pour up and get ready, because this is definitely one you might want to have a drink beforewatching.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Sep 4, 2026 · 1h 26m
Lex P and Drea Nicole are back with another hilarious solo episode, and as usual, theconversation goes everywhere. The ladies kick things off debating whether you can really tellwhat type of person somebody is just by looking at them, from facial features and eye contact tothe random physical traits that immediately make them suspicious. The conversation turns to dating as Lex and Drea break down the careers and lifestyles thatwould make them think twice about being with a man. From police officers and politicians tomen making their money in the streets, the ladies get real about what they’re willing to deal withat this stage in their lives and why stability and legitimate income matter more than ever.Later, they get into beauty, skincare, makeup, and how their relationships with their appearancehave changed over the years. They talk about feeling more comfortable going makeup-free,learning to appreciate their natural skin, and eventually take the conversation into plasticsurgery, tummy tucks, breast reductions, scars, and some of the unexpected things that canhappen when you go under the knife. Of course, it wouldn’t be Pour Minds without the conversation getting completely out of pocketalong the way. Between hilarious surgery stories, body talk, dating opinions, and plenty of sideconversations, Lex and Drea ultimately get real about body confidence, embracing yourimperfections, and why being comfortable in your own skin matters more than worrying aboutwhat anybody else thinks.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Aug 28, 2026 · 1h 59m
This week on Pour Minds, Lex P and Drea Nicole are joined by fan favorite Nav Green,and as expected, the conversation goes completely off the rails. 😂 Nav catches theladies up on his latest wins, including stepping into the writer’s room for the BETAwards, how his career has evolved, and why staying consistent matters more thancomparing your success to everybody else’s. Of course, it wouldn’t be a Nav episode without some wild stories. They get into hisdating life, using humor to get the ladies, knowing how to handle your liquor, old tourmemories, friendships, money, success, and learning to actually enjoy the life youworked for.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Aug 21, 2026 · 1h 28m
It’s Lex’s birthday, and the girls are celebrating Chapter 37! 🥂 Lex reflects on entering a new year feeling happier, more at peace, and more confident than ever, while she and Drea talk about getting older, protecting your joy, and finally being okay with people being wrong about you. The conversation gets into low-maintenance birthday girlies vs. Birthdayzillas, expectations from friends versus your partner, surprise gifts gone wrong, and why some “gifts” are really just new bills and responsibilities. In The Bed, the ladies discuss how intimacy changes as you get older and why emotional connection matters more in relationships. Plus, they answer a messy Pour Your Heart Out about a best friend wanting to reconnect with a man her friend already slept with.Of course, it wouldn’t be a Pour Minds birthday episode without a few drinks, plenty of laughs, and a very tipsy karaoke finale!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Aug 14, 2026 · 58m
Jacquees pulls up on Pour Minds for a conversation full of R&B, relationships, fatherhood, andplenty of laughs. The Atlanta native opens up about knowing he was a star from an early age,how becoming a father changed the way he moves, and why he still stands behind callinghimself the King of R&B. He also talks about the lost art of the remix, his latest music, dreamcollaborations, and why he wants to work with Drake. Then the conversation gets into love: dealing with a partner's family not liking you, settingboundaries with parents, choosing between your relationship and your family, spinning the blockon an ex, and whether there's really such a thing as "the one that got away." Jacquees shareshis perspective on love today and why family will always play a major role in the relationships hechooses. And of course, Pour Your Heart Out gets WILD when a listener asks what to do about herboyfriend only lasting two minutes in bed—and the crew debates how long sex should actuallylast.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.