
Pour Minds Podcast
The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts·404 episodes·Weekly
Two single Houstonians residing in Atlanta, Drea and Lex are navigating their way through life, friendships and dating. Discussing all the hot topics while getting lit on their favorite wine along the way!
Just like having a good ol' drunk therapy session with your friends, pull up a chair, join the convo and wine down!
Episodes
Latest Episode

June 5, 2026 · 1h 11m
This week on Pour Minds , Lex and Drea sit down with comedian, actress, radio personality, author, wife, and mother Jess Hilarious for an honest conversation about relationships, co-parenting, marriage, success, and personal growth. Jess opens up about the inspiration behind her new book, Till Death Do We Parent , sharing the real-life journey that took her from a toxic relationship with her son's father to building a healthy co-parenting partnership rooted in respect and accountability. She discusses the boundaries that helped protect her marriage, lessons learned from past relationships, and why so many people struggle to let go of unhealthy dynamics. The ladies also dive into comedy culture, cancel culture, social media relationships, dating in your 30s, and whether successful women should share their platforms with their partners. With plenty of laughs, personal stories, and unfiltered opinions, this episode is packed with gems about love, healing, parenting, and knowing when to choose peace over pride. Grab a drink and tune in—because this conversation is one every grown woman (and man) needs to hear. See for privacy information.
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May 29 · 1h 25m
The girls are back with another can’t-miss episode of Pour Minds, and this week they’re sitting down with R&B heartthrob 6lack to talk music and all the things the girls LOVE to debate. From his new album “Love Is The New Gangsta” to keeping real R&B alive, the vibes are smooth, funny, and a little messy in the best way possible. But baby… the real gag is finding out that 6lack does NOT eat white foods, so of course Lex and Drea had to ask the real question: could you date somebody with eating habits that give you the ick? The conversation gets even juicier when the crew talks about the signature scents coming out the strip club, whether working with your friends is a blessing or a disaster waiting to happen, and why women can be so shy about initiating sex. Should women start making the first move more, or are we standing beside our femininity? The girls get ALL the way into it. This episode feels like late-night girl talk with your funniest friends, full of laughs, opinions, and moments that will have you talking back to the screen. Trust, you do NOT want to miss this one. And don’t forget, the Pour Minds “Still Sippin” Tour is outside! The girls are coming to a city near you, so grab your tickets now at pourminds.com Go to https://www.ro.co/POURMINDS to see if your insurance covers GLP-1s—for free. Salt.xo offers pH-balanced feminine care that works with your body—not against it—helping you stay fresh, balanced, and confident from the inside out. Visit https://www.saltxo.com and use promo code XOPOURMINDS for 15% off.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 22 · 1h 34m
This week, Lex P and Drea Nicole are back by themselves and the conversation goes everywhere — from cutting people off and protecting your peace to why women always feel pressured to “be the bigger person.” The ladies talk about relationships that should’ve ended sooner, learning how to stop giving people unlimited access to you, and why sometimes life keeps showing you the same lesson until you finally let go. They also get into cheating, public call-outs on social media, strict boundaries in friendships and dating, and how therapy changes the way you move. Of course, it wouldn’t be Pour Minds without a little chaos too. The girls debate old-school music, fan-girl over celebrities they’d lose it meeting, and somehow end up creating a fake gospel rap song along the way. Real talk, funny moments, and a conversation that feels like kicking it with your homegirls — just how y’all like it.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 15 · 1h 15m
This week, Lex P and Drea Nicole are back solo and cutting up the entire episode. From debating celebrity ages and getting completely confused over Anne Frank, Helen Keller, and Martin Luther King Jr. to talking about hobbies as adults, bad cars on the highway, childhood talents, and why people need to mind their business about women not wanting kids — this episode goes everywhere in true Pour Minds fashion. The ladies also talk about learning to actually enjoy life outside of work, adult hobbies that help you unplug, reality TV addiction, taking yourself on walks, traveling, and how money and freedom completely change your quality of life. Lex admits gossip might actually be one of her hobbies, while Drea opens up about loving fitness, reading, and exploring Atlanta like a tourist in her own city. Later, the conversation turns into a hilarious “who’s older?” game featuring Beyoncé, Britney Spears, Rihanna, Adele, Chris Brown, Daniel Kaluuya, Kanye, Ludacris, and more — with plenty of wrong answers, zodiac sign logic, and chaotic commentary along the way. As always, it’s funny, random, relatable, and feels like hanging out with your homegirls with no filter at all. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 8 · 1h 30m
This week, Lex P and Drea Nicole are joined by Atlanta’s own Belly Gang Kushington! From going viral and becoming one of the hottest rappers out right now, to relationships, dating, heartbreak, fatherhood, and life before the music, Belly Gang kept it raw the whole time.The crew talks about his rise in rap, why he doesn’t charge for features, the truth about dating once fame hits, and why men suddenly get their act together when a woman is ready to leave. Belly Gang also opens up about raising his autistic son, navigating success while trying to stay grounded, and why he still wants real love despite all the attention.Of course, Lex and Drea had to get messy too — from asking about his love life and “work wives,” to debating vulnerability in rap, relationship expectations, expensive gifts, and whether women assume too much too fast while dating.Between the jokes, real conversations, and drunk thoughts, this episode feels like kicking it with your funniest friends while getting unexpected life advice at the same time. Tap in now. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 1 · 1h 31m
This week, Lex P and Drea Nicole are back solo and cutting up per usual. From childhood memories of saying “salutations” to getting lit in Houston, the girls recap their weekend, talk tour energy, and get into the chaos that happens when the whole city shows up. They also dive into internet culture—breaking down viral trends like “you the birthday,” the generational gap in humor, and how fast Black slang gets taken, flipped, and forgotten. Plus, a real conversation about giving credit where it’s due and whether viral creators deserve to get paid for the culture they start. Later, they sit down with their girl Helen of Alcove Aesthetics for a Business Spotlight, getting into all things skincare, injectables, and why finding a licensed, knowledgeable provider matters. Helen breaks down the difference between trendy treatments and real results, and how to keep your look natural while still doing what works for you. Of course, it wouldn’t be Pour Minds without a little randomness—grills, bad breath, crawfish etiquette, and why some trends just aren’t meant for everybody. Pour up—this one feels like being on the couch with your homegirls.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 24 · 2h 3m
This week, Lex P and Drea Nicole are back with a solo episode — and it’s a special one. It’sDrea’s birthday, it’s Taurus season, and the vibes are all the way up. The girls kick it off with shots and a real moment, reflecting on how far they’ve come — fromsitting on the floor with nothing but a dream to building a real business and getting ready to hitthe road again. They talk about turning 35, learning to give yourself grace, and actually enjoyingthe life you worked for instead of always chasing the next thing. Of course, it wouldn’t be a Pour Minds episode without a little chaos — they get into beingcalled “old,” why that narrative is tired, and why your 30s might actually be your best era. Plus,they play a Taurus trivia game, shout out their faves, and go off on a few random tangents thatonly they could. It’s real, it’s funny, and it’s one of those episodes that feels like you’re in the room with them.Pour up and press play.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 17 · 2h 7m
This week, Lex P and Drea Nicole are joined by the one and only Durand Bernarr — and baby, this episode is a whole experience. From going viral to winning a Grammy, Durand gets real about his journey, staying true to himself, and what it’s like growing up surrounded by music and fully stepping into your identity. The conversation gets deep as they unpack confidence, being labeled “too much,” and why people are so quick to project their own expectations onto you. They also get into internet assumptions, family dynamics, and the truth about forming your own beliefs as an adult — regardless of how you were raised. Of course, it wouldn’t be Pour Minds without some chaos — from hilarious singing games and 90s throwbacks to real talk about style, fame, and why money doesn’t automatically buy taste. It’s funny, honest, and one of those conversations that’ll have you thinking and crying laughing.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 10 · 1h 41m
This week, Lex P. and Drea Nicole are back solo — no guest, just the girls — and somehow the conversation goes from unhinged to deep real quick. From wild bedroom stories to Lex finding out she might’ve saved somebody’s life just by screaming on the podcast (yes, for real), this episode is a perfect reminder that Pour Minds be doing more than just talking shit. The girls get into everything — internet debates about Christina Aguilera, growing up on early 2000s music, and why people are always trying to pit women against each other. They also have a real moment about aging, losing legends, and how scary it feels watching time move fast while realizing we’re getting older too. Of course, it wouldn’t be Pour Minds without a little chaos — from Vaseline debates to concert regrets, Justin Timberlake stories, and random tangents that somehow all make sense. But underneath all the laughs, there’s real talk about health, taking care of yourself, and appreciating life while you’re in it. Plus, the ladies sit down with Vanessa Bouie, founder of Fancy Homebody, for this week’s Business Spotlight — getting into how she turned an Instagram community into a multi-million dollar brand built on comfort, confidence, and everyday luxury. Pour up. It’s funny, it’s real, and it’s very much “we just talking.”See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 9 · 1h 26m
This week, Lex P and Drea Nicole are joined by the one and only Reginae Carter — and baby, this conversation is long overdue. From growing up as Lil Wayne’s daughter to carving out her own lane in acting, business, and content, Nae gets real about what it’s actually like living in the spotlight and still trying to figure life out on your own terms. The girls get into everything — being labeled the “internet niece,” dealing with public perception, and the pressure that comes with being a celebrity kid. Nae opens up about confidence, colorism, and why staying true to yourself will always win, no matter what people have to say. They also dive into relationships, vulnerability, and the struggle of trying to be “mysterious” when you’re naturally an open book. Plus, a hilarious round of Lil Wayne trivia proves that even being his daughter don’t mean you know every lyric word for word 😭 Of course, it wouldn’t be Pour Minds without real talk about money, independence, and why having your own is non-negotiable in this era.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.