
Decisions, Decisions
The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts·600 episodes·Several times a week
Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love.
Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.
From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!
Episodes
Latest Episode

June 9, 2026 · 1h 36m
In this episode of Selective Ignorance , Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez headline king Jason “Jah” Lee to tackle a wide range of current events, legal controversies, celebrity culture, and social commentary , unpacking some of the most polarizing conversations shaping public discourse today. The episode begins with a breakdown of the latest headlines and trending controversies [ 03:03 ] , before examining the increasingly complicated relationship between audiences and public figures, and how celebrity culture influences public opinion [ 05:57 ] . The crew also explores the role of social media discourse, fandom culture, and online accountability [ 09:02 ] , leading into a discussion surrounding Daphne Joy and the court of public opinion , highlighting how narratives are formed and amplified in the digital age [ 11:48 ] . Conversations around victimhood, accountability, and public perception take center stage [ 15:08 ] , setting the foundation for a deeper examination of one of the episode’s most significant topics. The hosts then unpack the highly discussed Karmelo Anthony trial , providing context around the case and its broader societal implications [ 17:52 ] . They examine the legal complexities, racial dynamics, and public reactions surrounding the case [ 21:00 ] , before diving into the details of the track meet incident that sparked national debate [ 32:26 ] . The conversation explores questions surrounding violence, personal safety, and accountability [ 35:24 ] , while also analyzing the legal framework of self-defense claims and how race can influence perceptions within the justice system [ 41:22 ][ 45:52 ] . Later in the episode, the discussion shifts to a controversial story involving a YouTube couple who faced intense backlash after publicly sharing a difficult pregnancy decision [ 51:38 ] . The hosts thoughtfully explore the complexity of parental choice, disability, morality, and public judgment [ 57:51 ] , emphasizing the challenges of navigating deeply personal decisions in the age of social media. The conversation then broadens into a look at celebrity controversies and public reactions [ 01:04:50 ] , before examining the growing influence of political opinions expressed by entertainers and public figures [ 01:15:01 ] . The final portion of the episode turns toward sports, culture, and community identity , particularly the excitement surrounding the New York Knicks’ NBA Finals run and its impact on New York City culture [ 01:19:18 ] . The hosts reflect on the unique energy that sports bring to communities, the intersection of fandom and civic pride, and the broader cultural significance of major sporting events. The episode concludes with reflections on New York City’s spirit, community engagement, and future prospects [ 01:29:54 ] , tying together a conversation that spans law, culture, politics, sports, and the complexities of modern public discourse. No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social Media Mandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social Media Instagram @selectiveignorancepod Tiktok @selective.ignorance X/Twitter @selectiveig_pod See for privacy information.
More Episodes

Jun 8 · 0m
Of course we had to throw a show on 69!Come and see WHOREIBLE DECISIONS LIVEONLY A FEW TIX LEFT!https://sonyhall.com/shows/?eid=14917903See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jun 8 · 1h 0m
This week on Decisions, Decisions, Mandii and Weezy sit down with John and Breyonna, better known as Milk n Melanin, an interracial age-gap couple whose love story sparks a wild, honest, and unfiltered conversation. From how they met and what made their first date click, to navigating public stares, exes, family opinions, dating preferences, race, age, kids, intimacy, and keeping things spicy, John and Breyonna open up about the realities of their relationship and why their connection works despite what people may assume. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jun 3 · 20m
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jun 2 · 2h 20m
In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and headline king Jason “Jah” Leefor a lively and insightful conversation covering The Roots Picnic, friendship dynamics, hip-hop culture, sports, generational shifts, and the ongoing impact of celebrity controversies. The episode begins with a recap of their Roots Picnic weekend experience, highlighting the energy, culture, and significance of one of hip-hop’s most celebrated festivals [ 00:56 ]. The crew shares stories about friendship dynamics during a night out [ 06:05 ], including a humorous yet stress-filled situation involving a missing friend that turned a fun evening into an anxiety-inducing adventure [ 12:13 ]. The conversation then shifts back to the festival, breaking down the overall experience and Jay-Z’s highly discussed performance [ 20:12 ], including reactions to his freestyle and perceived responses to Drake amid the ongoing competitive energy surrounding hip-hop’s biggest names [ 24:08 ]. This leads into a broader discussion about the evolution of rap rivalries and how competition has shaped the genre across generations [ 35:38 ], along with insights into the behind-the-scenes realities of music collaborations and industry relationships [ 39:16 ]. The hosts also reflect on Jay-Z’s commentary on current events [ 42:02 ], before examining how personal relationships influence business decisions, artistic partnerships, and public perception within the music industry [ 45:27 ]. As the episode continues, the crew celebrates The Roots Picnic as a cultural institution [ 55:00 ], while also discussing the often-overlooked business challenges involved in producing large-scale music festivals [ 01:01:09 ]. The conversation expands into sports and cultural commentary [ 01:03:21 ], including reflections on the long-running cultural conversation surrounding sagging pants and fashion as self-expression [ 01:11:31 ], followed by predictions and analysis for the NBA Finals [ 01:12:42 ]. The hosts also weigh in on the controversy involving New York Giants quarterback Jaxson Dart and the political conversations surrounding athlete expression [ 01:19:29 ]. The final stretch of the episode explores the evolution of hip-hop culture and the growing generational gaps in music appreciation [ 01:31:33 ], prompting a thoughtful discussion on modern influences affecting children and young audiences today [ 01:47:09 ]. The hosts examine hip-hop’s continued cultural impact [ 01:50:10 ], debate which artists should be considered essential listening for the next generation [ 01:52:29 ], and stress the importance of understanding the historical context that shaped the genre’s development [ 02:01:24 ]. The episode closes with commentary on the ongoing Diddy controversy and how social media has transformed public accountability, celebrity scandals, and cultural discourse [ 02:04:06 ], tying together a conversation that is equal parts entertaining, reflective, and culturally relevant. No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jun 1 · 52m
Mandii B and Weezy are joined by Craig Wayans for a wild episode of Decisions, Decisions filled with unfiltered debates, relationship confessions, and a behind-the-scenes look at the new Scary Movie. Craig breaks down writing Scary Movie 1 & 2, shares horror classics everyone should revisit, and teases what fans can expect from the next film. The crew dives into messy conversations about dating within friend groups and families, relationship boundaries, public appearances with partners, and whether showing feet counts as cheating. Craig also opens up about fatherhood, catching his son drunk and high, smoking weed for the first time after 30, and his current dating life. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 27 · 20m
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 26 · 1h 48m
In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and headline king Jason “Jah” Leefor a layered conversation tackling voting rights, economic struggles, grief, mental health, hip-hop culture, and personal accountability in today’s social climate. The episode opens with a discussion on the erosion of voting rights and the shifting political landscape, particularly how new legislation impacts marginalized communities and voter access [ 03:11 ], before examining the role of public reactions, online engagement, and social media discourse in shaping political conversations [ 06:11 ]. The hosts then transition into a more personal discussion about grief, complicated relationships, and the emotional toll of supporting loved ones through difficult moments [ 08:58 ], alongside reflections on mental health, emotional boundaries, and the importance of protecting personal peace [12:07 ]. The conversation deepens with a breakdown of the SAVE Act and its implications for women’s voting rights [ 14:59 ], followed by broader commentary on political dynamics, gender equity, and shifting social attitudes toward women’s rights [ 18:11 ]. The crew also explores the tension between empathy and empire in political discourse [ 21:10 ], questioning how ideology, nationalism, and compassion intersect in modern society. From there, the episode pivots into global concerns, including the debate surrounding Iran, nuclear weapons, and American interests abroad [ 37:35 ], while also emphasizing the importance of understanding policy and economics in order to make informed political decisions [ 40:31 ]. The hosts then unpack the reality of financial struggles, wage stagnation, and the growing economic pressure facing everyday Americans [ 44:41 ][ 48:11 ], before critiquing the role of community leaders and the double standards often present in financial advice across racial lines [ 52:12 ][ 56:54 ]. Conversations around racism and economic disparities [ 01:01:06 ] lead into cultural reflections on scamming, street culture, and survival mentalities within underserved communities [ 01:06:07 ]. The episode continues with nuanced discussions about the ethics of scamming, shoplifting, and personal accountability [ 01:12:05 ], as well as how cultural influences and music can shape behavior and decision-making [ 01:15:20 ][ 01:18:53 ]. Closing out the episode, the crew dives into the ongoing Rick Ross vs. Drake feud and the complexities of relationships within hip-hop culture [ 01:22:42 ][ 01:29:16 ], before ending on reflections surrounding fatherhood, co-parenting, and the challenges of maintaining healthy relationships in the public eye [ 01:37:09 ]. Balancing humor, honesty, and cultural insight, the episode delivers a thought-provoking look at politics, economics, relationships, and the evolving realities shaping modern life. No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 25 · 1h 5m
Mandii and Weezy are back with another chaotic solo episode of Decisions, Decisions as they catch up on everything from Amber Rose looking wild and why “bad people are ugly,” to the overstimulation of living in NYC, awkward family interactions, scary driving stories, and the high price of jet fuel. The duo dive into the new era of dating, “Vanilla Ish,” situationships, and whether meeting your partner’s family actually matters, while Mandii shares a wild story involving spit and Weezy brings her man’s mom into the mix. Later, the ladies open up the courtroom for Kinky Court, react to “Cheating Klay” claiming he’s non-monogamous after getting caught up, and wrap things up discussing toxic and abusive relationships in another hilarious, unfiltered episode full of hot takes, oversharing, and pure friendship chaos. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 23 · 1m
Each week, Sam and Alex will hop in their time machine and spend time in the past in hopes of understanding the chaos that is sure to be our future. From pop culture to political news to scientific markers and medical breakthroughs, they and a guest will hold up a mirror to society and ask ourselves, “Did we really learn anything, or did we just become dumber?” Listen here and subscribe to Look Back At It on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you get your podcasts!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.