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April 20, 2026 · 1h 14m
Ashley B. Johnson-Alford Esq. talks about the pregnancy that caused her to leave Howard University to build a life her child deserves, and the victory lap she took getting a later degree from Howard after finishing her Bachelor's at Penn. In this conversation from December 2024, she bares so much as a guest, from being young & not really knowing her body well enough to detect realize she was pregnant, to the story of working for a month to earn the $100 to purchase her first court case files in middle school to follow along with the journey of someone who mattered to her. She details why she chooses to honor involuntary martyrs, why they matter to her, and why it matters to teach her children to honor family, as well as those who have lost their lives to a war they didn't sign up for. After a childhood he describes as challenging, and a young adulthood that included periods of being unhoused and having her daughter eat dinner alongside her during her law school classes, Ashley B Johnson-Alford shares that she is blessed enough to continually bless others & is undoubtedly living the life she thought she would. A gem of the episode is when she says "Whatever we get is for us to share" and after getting the privilege to hear her story as a Howard Girl in her own words, it's beyond time for me to share it with you all.
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Dec 15 · 1h 17m
Shenise McKnight-Wigall is a Howard University Class of 2012 Alumna, leaving out her dreams despite the hurdles life laid in her path. She opens up about the health scare that caused her to miss out on the May 2012 commencement ceremony, the advantages of coming to campus with a job as a Freshman, and the healing powers of motherhood. She shares her ankylosing spondylitis diagnosis, and how it led to her making healthier food choices for herself and her family. How in the face of stress she's learning to still be ambitious while finding a balance for health and wellness. "Shenise McKnight Always Represents the People" was the basis behind her first business endeavor S.M.A.R.T. People PR firm. We get to learn how the combination of leveraging her job in local politics and her opportunities as volunteer, of the Howard University Homecoming Committee, helped develop the relationships to make that business possible. She mentioned how the experience of being a Homecoming volunteer helped her see the event as more than a celebration, but as a vehicle to make the connections to the people she would like to represent at her PR firm. That one year of volunteering, led her to spearheading the Celebrity Basketball game the following year and being chair of the whole mutli-million dollar production her senior year, raising record-breaking funds at that time. It wasn't her first time producing a big budget event in the city. Her resume positioned her as the best candidate for the job. She had already put together the Inaugural concert for the DC Children's Education Fund. Her work with the city, on campus and with her PR firm was so impressive, her mom had to convince her on more than one occasion to stay in school and get the degree to fall back on if ever any of her employers were no longer in position to employ her. I just want to say, Momma's discernment is on point! This phenomenal Howard Woman, was ambitious early on! She announced at 7years old that she was going to attend Howard University, put the poster up and never took it down, despite offers from Stanford and UCLA being on the table. She currently works at Google, a company that when looking back at her Senior Project indications of where she saw herself 10, 15 or 20 years later, she knew she would be. Tune in for all the gems she dropped about her experience and extending opportunities to others.

Nov 27 · 1h 0m
On today's episode of Ain't Nothing Like A Howard Girl, Ms. Reid continues her conversation with Howard University Political Science graduate Ashley Mooring, The conversation picks up with Ashley sharing her need to find a different off-campus housing solution, and how a classmate in her French class presented the perfect solution. They go on to discuss how people who don't even know you, extend themselves and their resources in moments of need, converting them to life long friends. Ashley discusses the unwavering support of her family and their push for her to pursue her dreams even as those dreams shape shift. What things learned at home, should and could be taught at the university level for better context. And how the desire for reciprocity keeps us willfully indebted to our grandparents, while also leaning on our discernment to disavow us from being drained in service like those who've come before us. They briefly touch on Ashley's time with the Howard Gospel Choir and the opportunities it afforded her, as well as the ones she had to turn down. Ultimately, Ashley Mooring had one piece of advice for Howard Girls, Women, & Men alike "Take the Risk & Trust Your gifts." tune in to see exactly what that means. Music on this episode, and all episodes of the pod within a pod, Ain't Nothing Like a Howard Girl, features the track of the same name from a Mixtape titled The Freshmen 15 produced by Ryan McCaulsky. Voices on the track include, Jerez Giles, Anthony Henry and Robert James. The track samples Shawty Swing My Way by K.P. & Envyi

Nov 20 · 1h 1m
On Today's episode of Ain't Nothing Like A Howard Girl, Ms. Reid asks one of her Howard friends, Ashley Mooring, to share their Howard journey. In this first of a 2 part episode Ashley starts by sharing why her diploma reflects a different year than when she actually graduated and walked in the commencement ceremony. She shares how she came on campus having to advocate for herself from the very beginning when her department wouldn't accept all of her IB credits she earned in high school. Mooring goes on to share how her connections on campus introduced her to a study abroad opportunity with the ICCAE short for Intelligence Community Center of Academic Excellence, what that experience was like and her fight to get the credits she earned applied upon her return. Ms. Reid asked about dating on campus and Ashley shared what it was like compared to high school as well as dating now in their thirties, she gave a glimpse of insight into the creativity that came along with dating on a college student's budget. Their conversation makes it's way to Howard's continued housing concerns and Ms. Mooring shares the scenario that led her to seek off campus housing as a sophomore student which leads into next week's episode.

Nov 13 · 1h 2m
Today on Ain't Nothing Like A Howard Girl, Ms. Reid speaks with fellow class of 2012 Alumna Kristen Woods Broughton. She shares what occurences in her life during her matriculation at Howard changed the trajectory of the life she lives today. She opens up about the family she comes from, the family she's building and her personal impact on Atlanta schools, like improving literacy levels by 20% in her school before being invited to work at the district level. Kristen Woods Broughton is a proud graduate of Howard University, where she earned a Bachelor of Arts in English with a minor in Secondary Education in 2012. A dedicated advocate for public school education, Kristen currently serves as a Secondary Literacy Specialist for Atlanta Public Schools, supporting students and teachers in elevating literacy across the district. Since her graduation from Howard, she has furthered her expertise with a Master’s degree in Curriculum & Instruction and has over 12 years of experience in education, with a focus on empowering minority students in urban environments. While at Howard, Kristen served as co-chair and chair of Res-Fest, a campus initiative promoting unity and pride among dormitory residents. She also began her career in education by mentoring students in the DC area and gaining hands-on experience as a student-teacher at Cardoza High School. Kristen lives in Atlanta with her husband and their two daughters, who inspire her continued commitment to education and community. In her spare time, she enjoys dancing, reading, and dinner dates. Affectionately calling herself the “baby of an HBCU family,” Kristen comes from a line of HBCU graduates and loves to periodically return to “The Mecca” to reconnect with her heritage and foundational values.

Nov 7 · 43m
In today's episode of Ain't Nothing Like A Howard Girl, Howard University School of Business Graduate Victoria Iworah Stokes talks about what it's like to leave the University without the coveted "Big Girl Job" we come in expecting to obtain. She talks about her motivation to leave South Carolina for Washington DC as a teen, and what that experience was like in the long run. Victoria shares what it is like to land that corporate job, maintain it, while also running a business, nurturing a marriage and raising one child soon to be two children. We discuss how not knowing what you don't know & the naivete of youth will have you blocked from opportunities at a company you think can provide the experience you need all because in youthful assumption, you already committed to a company that ultimately did not have longevity in today's climate. Also be sure to support her business Sugarberry Gifting Co. this holiday season.

Oct 30 · 54m
In this episode of Ain't Nothing Like A Howard Girl, Ms. Reid chats with Mecaela Dunson, Howard University Class of 2013 Computer Engineering Alumna. They reminisce on their involvement with Jewels Incorporated a mentoring organization founded on Howard University's campus that both women joined as Freshmen. Mecaela goes on to share some of her favorite Freshmen year memories, before detailing the domino effect of grief and loss started by the loss of her job and continuing with loss after loss concluding with her survival of Breast Cancer. They also discuss Mecaela's podcast, The Millenial Job where she discusses everything grief, loss, joy victory and healing.

Oct 24 · 54m
In this episode of Ain't Nothing Like A Howard Girl the pod within a pod, Ms. Reid chats with fellow School of B graduate Kenisha Beresford. This conversation took place in the Summer of 2022 just before both women's 10th Homecoming Anniversary, Kenisha is a Hospitality Management Graduate in Howard University's Class of 2012, from Queens, NY. She gets candid about her entrepreneurship journey and her critique of the University. Kenisha talked about respecting students before they become alumni instead of treating them like numbers on campus and dollar signs once they've gone. She shared her deep affection for our Alma Mater, as well as some solutions for her concerns, believing no amount of love for Howard should stop us from expecting accountability. Both women discussed how Howard open their eyes to the many ways there are to exist as a Black person, and recognizing that being Black isn't a monolith, and neither is the Howard experience. Don't be afraid to ask the question, because asking is the only way to learn what you don't know.

Oct 22 · 36m
In this episode of Ain't Nothing Like a Howard Girl, Ms. Reid chats with fellow Howard University Class of 2012 Alumna Jazmin Moses-Counts. Jazmin Moses-Counts shares why she believes when it comes to Howard Women, we are ALL, THAT GIRL! She talks about what it means to live in the Plan B of life, and how at time when many of us are grieving the lives we expected to be living at this age, she has found a way to feel fulfilled. She shares that taking Plan B is never about changing the destination, just the way we arrive there. Tune in for more gems.

Oct 17 · 41m
In this continuation of the pod within a pod "Ain't Nothing Like a Howard Girl" Ms. Reid speaks with Howard University Alumna Jeslyn Miller, Fashion Merchandising Graduate from the class of 2012. This conversation took place in the summer of 2022, right before both women's 10 year graduation anniversary. Jeslyn shares the affirmations she'd give to the Howard Girl she once was, the lessons she learned in life through the lens of loss, and the positivity her parents poured into her as a child, shines through her business Unique & Lovely today. She also advises the powers that be at our Alma Mater, to listen to voices of the STUDENTS, because people don't tend to give their funds to places they don't feel respected and heard.