
And Then We... Podcast
iHeartPodcasts·365 episodes·Weekly
Quick Facts
This is NOT your typical ”relationship podcast”. Each week, married couple Kristen Sivills and J-Rod Tanner, give you laughter and transparency, on topics related to sex, love, family, and whatever else is REALLY on their mind... and probably yours too!
Episodes
Latest Episode
October 16, 2026 · 2h 58m
THE FAST GROWING PODCAST IN VIRGINIA BEACH IS BACK WITH A BRAND NEW EPISODE! FIRST, WE DIDN'T MISS EPISODE 351 -- IT'S HERE! WE EXPLAIN WHY DURING THE EPISODE! WE TALK ABOUT A BUNCH OF DIFFERENT THINGS INCLUDING SEDUCTION TECHNIQUES, BEING JUDGED FOR BEING OPEN TO YOUR SEXUAL DESIRES AS A WOMAN, NOT WANTING TO REVEAL WHO YOUR PARTNER IS, AMD REVIEW SOME OF THE LATEST COMEDY SPECIALS OUT! THERE'S A LOT MORE BUT... YOU CAN JUST LISTEN NOW TO HEAR ABOUT IT LOL. ENJOY!!!! Live Show in Virginia Beach on November 15th HERE! Make the switch! Book with Loving Cruises: See for privacy information.
More Episodes
Oct 1, 2026 · 2h 42m
THE FASTEST GROWING PODCAST IN ... WE'LL GET BACK TO YOU THAT ONE... GRAB YOUR VA BEACH TIX | MAKE SURE YOU JOIN THE PATREON 🍬 J-Rod finally found a sour candy that broke him 📞 The school called with a death notice, and his first reaction wasn't about that at all 📋 Top 6 Things That Don't Really Exist, ranked (our number one might start a fight in the comments) 💯 J-Rod rated Kristen's looks and her personality separately, out loud, on camera 🧠 Is "neurotypical" even real? We could not agree on this one ⚰️ J-Rod planned his entire funeral and Kristen is not having any of it 🎤 An American Idol contestant sang love songs about his affair, then got convicted of killing his wife 🌶️ 10 spicy rules for a hot sex life, and we graded ourselves against them 🏀 Gregg Popovich married his former assistant coach's ex-wife, so we debated remarrying someone you already know 👟 A dad threatened to "air out" his son's school over snack time ✈️ Savannah James let her best friend fly coach while she sat first classSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Sep 24, 2026 · 2h 34m
Join Our Patreon RIGHT NOW to Watch/Listen to the Entire Episode as well as parts that were cut! Also, until September 30th, get TWO MONTHS FREE on an Annual Membership! ATW Patreon THE FASTEST GROWING PODCAST, SOMEWHERE... IS BACK WITH A BRAND NEW EPISODE!!! This week, J-Rod got jealous of a stranger's Instagram post about his kid's art... and Kristen exposed the one accomplishment he's been lying about for years. 🎨 Then we get into it: the Top 6 Things That Just Aren't Fun After 34 — dating, festivals, forgetting because you were drunk, two-story homes, being broke, and the #1 spot that's going to start an argument in your house too. Plus: Kristen tells J-Rod the real reason his friendships feel off lately, we break down the new survey claiming Gen Z is too broke to have sex, and go through a list of real sex phobias neither of us expected to relate to. We also get into the Aries Spears vs. Lance Woods comedy beef, whether Paul Walker should come back to Fast & Furious through AI, Chris Brown's "nobody on this planet can touch me" quote against Usher's King of R&B claim, Florida's new felony law for fake pay stubs, and Oprah's "one decade left" comment that turned into a real conversation about why we're actually here. ENJOY!!!! And Then We… is sponsored by BetterHelp. Sign up and get 10% off at betterhelp.com/ATWHS See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Sep 17, 2026 · 2h 56m
She rated me a 6.3 out of 10 and wouldn't explain the math. That's the whole episode, honestly. Also this week: Top 6 Ways Life Was Harder, the Emmys snub, and a family trip to Atlanta.😅 Being "phony" and the natural hair vs. wigs debate👔 Standards of being presentable🍞 Cinnamon raisin biscuits and Hardee's🎟️ Virginia Beach live show announcement🎤 A comedian's honest reaction to podcast live shows🏆 Top 6 Ways Life Was Harder — S-curls, the Dewey Decimal System, toilet paper spitballs for the radio, and more🛍️ Couponing discussion📱 Honorable mention: raising kids before social media🧹 Kristen's week: a full cleaning spree✈️ J-Rod's week: his cousin's funeral in Atlanta🩹 His aunt fell walking in and had to go to the hospital instead of the funeral🎵 Lil Durk playing at the funeral🚗 Road trip arguments with his brother and mom📸 Martha Stewart's nude photo release💍 The Lululemon billionaire's no-prenup divorce👛 A lost purse turns into a vibrator story📊 Would you be offended if she rated you a 6.3?👰 A bride freaks out over a fainting guest at her wedding🦠 Drug-resistant ringworm going around schools🚬 Stealing magazines and Black & Milds as teenagers❤️ A dying father spent his last months finding a home for his autistic son🧩 Raising kids on the spectrum, from their own experience🎶 Reacting to a Top 25 R&B Love Ballads list🎤 Can Kristen actually sing?🤬 First curse word of the day, by 10:54 AM💼 The 32-hour work week and WFH mental health debate🎬 "Everybody Wants to Fuck Me" movie discussion🐕 RIP Bloodhound Q50📺 What we're watching: Odyssey🏆 Emmys discussion — 17 Black nominees, zero televised winsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Sep 10, 2026 · 2h 45m
Kristen's dad killed a rattlesnake in the garden with his bare hands (basically). Then they got back from Charlotte and had a run-in with DaBaby that nobody expected. 🌱 Landscaping talk, edging, and the "garden nigga" debate 🐍 J-Rod's dad and the rattlesnake story 🧀 The mac and cheese argument that turned into a full "luck person" debate 🎂 Cake baking rivalry 🕺 Bounce vs. slide (you know what that means) 🏆 Top 6 Reasons You're Old — the full list, honorable mentions included 🎤 Charlotte tour recap: the radio station, the DaBaby sighting, Midnight Diner, both shows, the meet & greet, and karaoke night 🔥 Detailed recap of the previous night (you'll know when you hear it) 🃏 21 Questions card game 💊 The ED medication/blindness news story turns into a full dick-size mortality debate 🏙️ Club vs. lounge, aging fears, and whether they're having more kids 👦 Twins Caleb & Cameron drama — the "Fuck" story 📚 Kids' school progress update 🍽️ DaBaby's restaurant "No Knives" price debate 🏀 Miss Rachel and Lethal Shooter's basketball video 🗽 Jalen Brunson on SNL, Knicks talk, NYC safety stats 🐔 A chicken theft story 🍔 Wendy's T-Rex burger challenge and an exercise pill in the news 💀 A Grim Reaper hospital costume story 🕊️ Rest in peace: Buckwild 📺 What We're Watching: Lanterns, the Mr. T documentary, Generation 9/11, The Pastor's Wife 🕊️ Rest in peace: Cousin Bubba Patreon First Base Tier gets the full uncut episode, in order, the day it drops → patreon.com/andthenwepodcast See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Sep 3, 2026 · 2h 52m
THE FASTEST GROWING PODCAST IN CHARLOTTE, NC IS BACK WITH A BRAND NEW EPISODE. THIS WEEK AS WE PREPARE FOR OUR LABOR DAY WEEKEND SHOWS IN CHARLOTTE, WE TALK ABOUT THE THINGS THAT WE CARED ABOUT, HOPEFULLY YOU WILL CARE ABOUT IT TOO! ENJOY!!!!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Aug 27, 2026 · 2h 23m
THE FASTEST GROWING PODCAST IN CHARLOTTE, NC IS BACK WITH A BRAND NEW EPISODE! IT'S BEEN A MINUTE SINCE WE RECORDED AN EPISODE SO LAST NIGHT WE DECIDED TO TELL YOU ALL WHY LOL. WE ALSO TELL YOU ABOUT OUR NEXT LIVE SHOW WHICH IS HAPPENING NEXT WEEK!!!! MAKE SURE YOU GRAB YOUR TICKETS AND SEND THOSE PLATE PICS (YOU'LL UNDERSTAND AFTER LISTENING) THANK YOU ALL FOR YOUR CONTINUED LOVE... ENJOY!!! And Then We… is sponsored by BetterHelp. See if BetterHelp is right for you betterhelp.com/ATWHS Make the switch! MINTMOBILE.com/ATW See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jul 24, 2026 · 1h 27m
THE FASTEST GROWING PODCAST IN _______ IS BACK WITH PART! (FILL IN THE BLANK) WE START WITH A CONFESSION FROM J THAT DEFINITELY SHOULD'VE BEEN LEFT A SILENT THOUGHT. WE ALSO GET INTO GROCERY STORE DATING, HALLE BERRY BEING "JUICY" BECAUSE OF PERIMENOPAUSE, AND A WHOLE LOT MORE! ENJOY! 🍑 Halle Berry on perimenopause — "Juicy like a peach" — and why marriages fall apart around this age 🤝 National Hand Job Day — J-Rod on what makes it good, what makes it terrible, and the Russian spy training video 😂 J-Rod: "I block out bad hand jobs. Which means they were all terrible." 💑 5 controversial rules that keep relationships hot — from a lesbian page, and they debate every single one 🛏️ Separate blankets study — 30% better sleep, 20% less arguing. They both realize it's working. 💍 Mandy B: "Marriage is for broke bitches." They push back. Thoughtfully. 🎤 Bow Wow Tiny Desk — J-Rod wants to give him a Super Bowl halftime show. Kristen slowly comes around. 👻 Ghostface and Slick Rick performed at the ESPYs. Athletes did not move. 🚗 Nissan Altima getting discontinued. "You ever f***ed in the back of one?" "Of course." "You was a Nissan hoe." 📱 Funny phone nicknames women give men — Dance Studio, Ramen Noodles, Youth Medium, Kilometer ⚖️ Malcolm-Jamal Warner's widow sues his mother — one year since his passing 📺 ESPN cuts Cam Newton and Ryan Clark. "All the niggas they let go have successful podcasts." 😴 RIP Hal Williams, Sanford and Son, 91. "I thought that nigga was already gone." 🎬 What we're watching: Zola, Colman Domingo, Shipwrecked, X-Men '97 Patreon First Base Tier gets the full uncut episode, in order, the day it drops → patreon.com/andthenwepodcast ALSO, DON'T FORGET TO BOOK YOUR ROOM AND JOIN US @ HEDONISM II IN JAMAICA ON DECEMBER 12-17. GET MORE INFORMATION AT www.worstbehaviortour.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jul 22, 2026 · 1h 34m
THE FASTEST GROWING PODCAST IN _______ IS BACK WITH A BRAND NEW EPISODE!!! (FILL IN THE BLANK) THIS WEEK WE DID A LOT OF RELATIONSHIP TALK... AND HEREDITARY FALLING, SOCK STEALING AND MORE!!! ENJOY!!!! Also, y'all asked for the site so, here it is -> www.blktouch.com 🤸 Kristen married into a family of fallers. She has questions for the past version of herself. 🔥 Kristen burns herself every other week. He thinks it's a choice. 😂 "Walking chose all of us." — Kristen, trying to win the argument 💅 Grandma squirting clip went public. J-Rod's mom commented "She probably did." 📺 Viewer says Kristen doesn't like J-Rod. Kristen: "I really do. But if I was nice, that wouldn't be fun." 🏆 B*tches Love List — things you do that I don't hate anymore 😤 Top 3 things Kristen can't do — hiding emotions, staying organized, loud noises with the kids 🗓️ They did nothing for their wedding anniversary. It's fine. It's fine. 🎬 BLK Touch on the big screen, lights changing with the scene. Kristen came twice. 🦶 QoTD: someone asked about feet content 🎵 Problematic songs thread — R. Kelly, Trey Songz, Aaliyah, Baby It's Cold Outside 🧸 Things you weren't allowed to do as a kid 💐 What's a man's version of flowers? Patreon First Base Tier gets the full uncut episode, in order, the day it drops → patreon.com/andthenwepodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jul 17, 2026 · 1h 31m
IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO HEAR OR WATCH THIS FULL EPISODE RIGHT NOW, GO TO: www.patreon.com/andthewepod THE FASTEST GROWING PODCAST IN YOUR CITY IS BACK WITH THE SECOND HALF OF THIS WEEK'S EPISODE. IN THIS HAVE WE'RE TALKING ABOUT BOOSIE GETTING FINESSED, BAD B**CH INSPIRATIONS, WE DO A COMMERCIAL THAT GOES TERRIBLY WRONG AND MUCH MORE! ENJOY!!!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.