Finally Ready to Confess (w/ BenDeLaCreme)

Drag queen icon BenDeLaCreme ( Drag Race 6, All-Stars 3 ) joins Nicole to spill some major breaking news: they've been secretly separated from her partner of 8 years. They talk about the effort it takes to try to stay friends with an ex, the confusing reality of jumping back into the LA dating pool in your mid-40s, and why it's impossible to tell if a guy wants to date you or just wants exclusive Drag Race gossip.

Plus, DeLa breaks down her brilliant move to self-eliminate on All-Stars 3, and Nicole reveals the unhinged manifestation trick she used to lock down the nice man in her life. See The Jinkx and DeLa Holiday Show on tour in a city near you!

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