The Ryan Leak Podcast

Sep 14, 2026 · 11m

Getting started takes bravery. Keeping going takes resilience.Life won’t always cooperate with your plans. Ideas flop. People disappoint you. Opportunities disappear. Doors close. And sometimes the hardest part isn’t what happened. It’s figuring out how to move forward after it happened.In this episode, Ryan talks about the difference between processing disappointment and parking in it, why you don’t always need closure to move forward, and what research on the “Progress Principle” teaches us about the surprising power of small wins.You don’t have to fix everything today. You don’t need a massive breakthrough. Sometimes you just need one conversation, one email, one workout, one page, or one next step.Whatever happened, it doesn’t get the final word.Keep it moving.

Sep 7, 2026 · 12m

We spend a lot of energy trying to keep up with competitors who aren't even thinking about us. We scroll through someone's highlight reel and measure it against our behind-the-scenes. We compare our chapter 3 to their chapter 20. And every time we do it, we lose. Not because we're behind, but because we're running in the wrong race entirely.In this episode, Ryan shares the questions that actually measure progress. Are you stronger than you were last year? Wiser? More disciplined? Have your relationships gotten better? If the answer is yes, you're winning, even when it doesn't look like winning on Instagram.The greatest athletes in history weren't obsessed with the person in the lane next to them. They were obsessed with their own time, their own form, their own preparation. That's the competition worth showing up for.

Aug 31, 2026 · 12m

Someone says “your presentation could’ve been stronger” and your brain hears “you’re a failure.” Someone says “I think you could listen more” and your brain hears “you’re a bad spouse.” We don’t process feedback as information. We process it as judgment. And because it feels like a verdict, we defend ourselves against the very thing that could make us better. Ryan unpacks why defensiveness, not feedback, is the real enemy of growth.In this episode, Ryan talks about treating criticism as data instead of a death sentence. Not all feedback is accurate. Some of it is projection. Some of it is jealousy. But some of it is gold. And if you reject all of it because some of it stings, you’ll miss the insights that could’ve changed your trajectory.

Aug 24, 2026 · 13m

There’s a gap between who we think we are and how people actually experience us. And that gap is where most of our relational problems live. Ryan asks the question he uses in every coaching session and keynote: what’s it like to be on the other side of you? Not what your résumé says. Not what your bio reads. But the actual lived experience of working for you, living with you, being led by you.In this episode, Ryan gets specific. What’s it like to be on the other side of your decisions? Your tone? Your urgency? Your stress? Would you want to work for you? Would you want to be married to you? Would you want your kids to grow up in a home led by someone who shows up the way you show up? You can’t improve what you’re not aware of. And the answer to that question might be the most valuable feedback you’ve ever received.

Aug 17, 2026 · 10m

We’ve built an entire culture around surviving the week just to get to the weekend. TGIF. We countdown the days. We post the memes. But if you dread five out of seven days of your life, that’s not just a bad job. That’s a bad life. You’re spending 71% of your week wishing it was over. That’s not a schedule. That’s a sentence. Ryan challenges everything we’ve normalized about hating Mondays.In this episode, Ryan asks a question worth sitting with: does your team dread Monday because of the work, or because of the environment? Everybody can look forward to a Friday. That’s easy. But what if you could create a culture people actually looked forward to showing up to on a Monday? That’s not just management. That’s leadership. And if you’re not in leadership, you still set the tone for your own week. Anyone can thank God it’s Friday. The people who learn to thank God it’s Monday have figured out something the rest of the world is still chasing.

Aug 10, 2026 · 11m

Would you rather be right or would you rather be connected? Ryan has met a lot of people who are always right. And he’s noticed something about them. They’re often alone. Not because they’re wrong, but because it’s exhausting to interact with someone who never considers the possibility that they might be. Ryan gets personal about seasons where he won every argument and lost every connection.In this episode, Ryan unpacks why being right is addictive, why your brain literally rewards you with dopamine when you prove your point, and why that hit comes at the expense of the relationships that matter most. Relationships aren’t courtrooms. The people in your life aren’t opposing counsel. And every time you prioritize being right over being kind, you chip away at the thing that matters most. Be right sometimes. Be kind always.

Aug 3, 2026 · 11m

Your boss gives you tough feedback and you spend the whole weekend convinced they’re trying to push you out. Then Monday comes and they tell you they’re recommending you for a promotion. A friend doesn’t text back for days and you build a whole narrative. They’re pulling away. They don’t care. Then they call and say their mom’s been in the hospital. Ryan unpacks why the story we tell ourselves is almost always worse than what’s actually happening.In this episode, Ryan challenges the habit of assigning motives to people based on incomplete information. What if your coworker isn’t stealing your idea but just excited about it? What if your spouse isn’t criticizing you but just said it wrong? Before you build the case, ask the question. You might be surprised by what you find when you stop fighting people who were never fighting you.

Jul 27, 2026 · 8m

“I’ll start when I’m ready” might be the biggest lie we tell ourselves. I’ll start the business when I’m ready. I’ll have the conversation when I’m ready. I’ll write the book when I’m ready. And then the thing you were preparing for passes you by while you were still getting prepared. Ryan breaks down the difference between preparing and hiding, and why “I’m not ready” is often just a dressed-up version of “I’m scared.”In this episode, Ryan shares his own journey of starting before he felt qualified and explains why confidence isn’t a prerequisite for action. It’s a byproduct of it. The perfect conditions you’re waiting for aren’t coming. But this morning is here. And sometimes the only thing standing between you and the life you want is the willingness to start messy.

Jul 20, 2026 · 9m

Nobody’s going to send you an invoice for being distracted. But research says it takes 23 minutes to fully refocus after a single interruption. Multiply that by a dozen times a day and you’re losing hours. Not minutes. Hours. We’re more connected than we’ve ever been and less focused than we’ve ever been. Ryan unpacks the hidden cost of the thing we’ve all normalized.In this episode, Ryan challenges you to do an honest audit of where your time is actually going, not where you think it’s going. Because distraction doesn’t just steal your productivity. It steals your presence. And the people you love deserve more than a distracted version of you.