Love versus Limerence

Love versus Limerence | Ern and Iso Podcast What’s the difference between truly loving someone and becoming obsessed with the idea of them? In this episode of the Ern and Iso Podcast , Ern and Iso break down love versus limerence and how attraction can sometimes cause us to place people on a pedestal.

The duo discusses how men and women “rank” the opposite sex, what determines where someone falls on that scale, and whether we sometimes give people more value simply because we desperately want them to choose us. Can someone become a “10” in your mind because they don't want you?

Are you attracted to the actual person—or the version of them you've created in your head? And when feelings aren't returned, is it love, unrequited love, limerence… or simply the desire to win?

Ern and Iso also explore how looks, personality, money, status, confidence, compatibility, rejection, and social media can influence who we pursue and why. Love or limerence?

Attraction or obsession? Reality or the fantasy you've created?

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