Cocktales with Kiki

Sep 4 · 1h 12m

What happens when somebody switches up on you — do you protect your peace, address it, or give them exactly the same energy back?This week on CockTales with Kiki, Kiki gets into the difference between setting a boundary and just being petty, why changed energy can tell you everything you need to know, and whether “matching energy” is actually empowering… or just letting somebody else dictate how you move.Then Sip & Spill takes a turn when a caller shares a situation involving an ex resurfacing and a baby, raising some very real questions about old relationships, unexpected circumstances, and what happens when the past comes knocking with a whole new set of complications.Plus: flaky friends, knowing who really shows up for you, and why sometimes the best response to weird energy is not matching it at all.Every sip has a story — and this one comes with boundaries.SPONSORS:VB HEALTH- SOAKING WETVisit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off INDACLOUDIf you’re 21 or older, get 30% OFF your first order @IndaCloud with code COCKTALES at https://inda.shop/COKTALES #indacloudpod Contact Me!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comSip & Spill: You can also leave a voicemail and spill whatever you want! 404-692-0039Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game  www.imcurioustoknow.comBali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/BaliGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoChapters00:00 The Energy Match Cocktail Recipe01:22 Adventures at the Brown Butter Supper Club05:25 The Dishwasher Disaster Update09:59 Building Your Creative Collective12:26 Is Your Relationship Actually Boring?16:58 Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip Review35:27 Vaginal Health and Soaking Wet38:08 Sip and Spill: Listener Advice SessionBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-with-kiki--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the host and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoCocktales With KikiInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on Cocktales?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form

Aug 28 · 54m

In this solo episode of CockTales with Kiki, Kiki gets into what it really means to show up — for your friends, your relationships, and yourself. After a Sip & Spill caller admits she’s nervous about planning a party only to have people cancel, the conversation opens up into flakiness, dating etiquette, last-minute cancellations, and the difference between protecting your peace and simply being inconsiderate.Kiki also answers an Ask Kiki letter from a listener who feels like she’s wasting her twenties waiting for the next chapter of her life to finally begin, plus another very different dilemma involving a boyfriend, old sex videos, and one extremely questionable camera roll.From RSVP anxiety to mixed signals and learning how to enjoy your life before everything is perfectly figured out, this episode is about who shows up, who flakes, and what it really means.Follow me! @kikisaidso & @cocktalespodcastContact Me!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comAdvertising: cameron@pleasurepodcasts.com Sip & Spill where I sip and you spill: 404-692-0039Sponsors/Special Offers:IROHAAugust is Orgasm Month! Celebrate by upgrading your wellness routine with Iroha and check out my faves at https://tidd.ly/4wPnFa8SOAKING WETMake every encounter slipperier, sexier, and downright sensational. It’s time to get Soaking Wet and keep those good times coming...literally. And the best part? Soaking Wet is formulated by medical doctors at VB Health. Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off soakingwet.comInterested in Podcasting? Join the Cohort to learn from me! Fill Out The Interest Formhttps://forms.gle/TrzDVEUHtaHv6fW89Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game  www.imcurioustoknow.comBali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/BaliGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-with-kiki--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the host and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoCocktales With KikiInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on Cocktales?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form

Aug 22 · 1h 43m

Every sip has a story… and apparently one glass of Prosecco has about 20.Dree Taylor is back, and this week we're catching up on everything from the RHOA reunion and our latest reality TV opinions to moving drama, family updates, expensive weddings, questionable decisions and the very real possibility that Whitley almost sent somebody to the First 48.Then the stories start STORYING.We get into some absolutely unhinged listener submissions—including a workplace hookup with more parts than a Netflix limited series—and Dree and I add a few confessions of our own. Somewhere along the way we're talking broken beds, sex on vacation, old flames, bad decisions, and why some stories only get funnier once enough time has passed.Grab a drink and come sit with us. Because around here, every sip has a story—and this week, we have plenty.Follow My Girl! @_dreetaylorFollow Me!@cocktalespodcast@kikisaidsoContact us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comSIP & SPILLYou can also leave a voicemail instead of an email for advice and cocktales or to just get something off your chest!!  404-692-0039Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game  www.imcurioustoknow.comBali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/BaliGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoSponsors:Brooklyn BeddingGo to brooklynbedding.com and use my promo code COCKTALESPOD at checkout to get 30% off sitewide during the LABOR DAY SALE. Exclusive with my code!VB HealthMake every encounter slipperier, sexier, and downright sensational. It’s time to get Soaking Wet and keep those good times coming...literally. And the best part? Soaking Wet is formulated by medical doctors at VB Health. Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-with-kiki--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the host and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoCocktales With KikiInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on Cocktales?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form

Aug 17 · 53m

Dree Taylor is back, and apparently all we needed was a cocktail and a microphone to cover every possible topic known to womanhood.We start with a truly unhinged edition of Weird Sex featuring jewelry made out of semen (yes, you read that correctly), then head to Westeros to discuss dragons, questionable family trees and why Kiki still needs somebody willing to cut a head off on her behalf. From there, we get into the Housewives friendship fallout, men with multiple wives, childhood crimes involving acorn pies, and whether there should be a statute of limitations on airing your ex out online.Somehow, we also end up planning Kiki’s funeral—complete with a hologram, a snatched casket body, possible haunting privileges and a plan to turn her ashes into a diamond. Because obviously. Then we get a little serious about friendship when a listener asks what to do when she realizes she may be the only thing keeping her friend group alive. Is it time for an honest conversation…or time to let that group chat die in peace? Plus: moving woes, air-mattress celibacy, and a little Bali temptation for anybody who wants to join the girls’ trip. Pour something strong.**Cheers to the girls’ weekend!** 🥂Sponsors:VB HealthMake every encounter slipperier, sexier, and downright sensational. It’s time to get Soaking Wet and keep those good times coming...literally. And the best part? Soaking Wet is formulated by medical doctors at VB Health. Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off IrohaUse [cocktales10] for 10% off your order! Don’t miss the chance to treat yourself! http://usstore.iroha.com/cocktales10Contact us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comYou can also leave a message on the Nightcap Hotline to ask for advice, share a cocktale, or just get something off your chest!Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game  www.imcurioustoknow.comBali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/BaliGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-with-kiki--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the host and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoCocktales With KikiInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on Cocktales?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form

Aug 7 · 44m

Welcome to **The Next Chapter of CockTales with Kiki** — new studio, new show, but don’t worry… it’s still the same ol’ Kiki.In this first official episode of the new era, Kiki is catching Production up on what’s changing, what’s staying exactly the same, and why CockTales is becoming even more like the group chat you never want to mute. We’re still talking **sex, dating, relationships and all the questionable decisions that come with them**, but now we’ve got even more room for pop culture, friendship, travel, life updates, random thoughts and whatever else has Kiki asking, “Am I the only one wondering this?”This week, a listener needs advice about mismatched sex drives and how to help his “good girl” girlfriend tap into her freakier side. Kiki has thoughts about libido, intimacy, foreplay, romance novels, sexual compatibility and why sometimes the answer isn’t another position — it’s actually talking to your partner.Then it’s time for the debut of **Questions That Need Answers**, including why everyone stands up the second a plane lands, why Atlanta restaurants insist on turning dinner into the club, and why the quietest person in the group chat somehow knows everybody’s business.Plus, **Sip & Spill** is officially open! One listener calls the Nightcap Number with a wild work-trip hookup involving a little heartbreak, a fine man, several drinks and one unforgettable one-night stand.New chapters don’t mean becoming somebody different. Sometimes they just mean making more room for who you already are.**In this episode:** sex and relationship advice, mismatched libidos, sexual compatibility, dating and intimacy, one-night stands, workplace hookups, friendship and group chat drama, solo podcast life, pop culture, travel talk, listener confessions and the beginning of a brand-new CockTales era.🍸 **Sip responsibly. Spill anonymously.**Sponsors:VB Health- Soaking WetMake every encounter slipperier, sexier, and downright sensational. It’s time to get Soaking Wet and keep those good times coming...literally. And the best part? Soaking Wet is formulated by medical doctors at VB Health. Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off ROCKET MONEYDownload the Rocket Money App today rocketmoney.com/cocktalesContact us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comYou can also leave a message on the Nightcap Hotline to ask for advice, share a cocktale, or just get something off your chest!Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game  www.imcurioustoknow.comBali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/BaliGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-with-kiki--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the host and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoCocktales With KikiInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on Cocktales?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form

Jul 31 · 55m

It’s the end of an era...but not CockTales.Medinah returns to CockTales one final time to share what she’s been up to, what she’s learned during this season of transition, and why she made the difficult decision to step away from the show after nearly 500 episodes.Kiki and Medinah reflect on growing up publicly, doing things scared, navigating new relationships, unlearning old patterns, and accepting when something meaningful no longer aligns with the direction your life is taking. They also discuss the pressure to give people every detail, why closure does not always come with a dramatic explanation, and how walking away does not have to erase the love, memories, and work that came before it.There are tears, laughter, old CockTales memories, a few final confessions, and an honest goodbye to the chapter they created together.Thank you to everyone who listened, supported, laughed, traveled, attended live shows, and grew alongside CockTales over the years. One chapter is closing, but the story is far from over. Stick around. Kiki has a few tricks up her sleeve, and next week, the new chapter begins.Brooklyn BeddingGo to brooklynbedding.com and use my promo code COCKTALESPOD at checkout to get 30% off sitewideVB Health- Try SOAKING WET & Drive Boost!Get 10% off SOAKING WET from VB Health with code COCKTALES visit SOAKINGWET.COM todayContact us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comNEW SEGMENTSIP & SPILL- Before you drunk-text your ex, call your best friend for the fourth time, or send a voice note you’ll regret by sunrise… call the Nightcap Number and leave us a message.Confessions, questions, dilemmas, and stories—we want to hear it all.Sip responsibly. Spill anonymously. 404-692-0039 Dynamic Lover Girl Retreat – Korea: Dynamic Lover Girl - KoreaA Lover Girl Summer: A Lover Girl SummerJoin Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game  www.imcurioustoknow.comBali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/BaliGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-with-kiki--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the host and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoCocktales With KikiInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on Cocktales?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form

Jul 20 · 40m

Kiki is recording on fumes in the middle of moving week, surrounded by boxes, broken nails, damaged furniture, and enough bickering to make her wonder whether the stress is coming from the move or Mercury being in Gatorade again.She shares the chaotic reality of combining households with her man that’s not her man, why his approach to the homebuying process has left her feeling out of the loop, and how to support a partner who is stressed without sounding controlling or turning into their unpaid project manager.Kiki also breaks down how Mercury retrograde may be affecting communication, relationships, collaborations, and major life transitions, plus what everyone should watch for during the post-retrograde shadow period. Then, she opens up a conversation about breakups, closure, ghosting, and whether every relationship deserves an exit interview.Production, tap in with your advice, and get ready for Sip & Spill, the new segment where listeners can call the Nightcap Number with anonymous confessions, questions, and stories before drunk-texting their ex.Go to brooklynbedding.com and use my promo code COCKTALESPOD at checkout to get 30% offsitewide during the {{2026 PROMOTION BELOW}}.VB Health- Try SOAKING WETGet 10% off SOAKING WET from VB Health with code COCKTALES visit SOAKINGWET.COM todayContact us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comNEW SEGMENTSIP & SPILL- Before you drunk-text your ex, call your best friend for the fourth time, or send a voice note you’ll regret by sunrise… call the Nightcap Number and leave us a message.Confessions, questions, dilemmas, and stories—we want to hear it all.Sip responsibly. Spill anonymously. 404-692-0039 Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game  www.imcurioustoknow.comBali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/BaliGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-with-kiki--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the host and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoCocktales With KikiInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on Cocktales?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form

Jul 12 · 39m

QTNA: Questions That Need AnswersKiki has questions…and apparently, y’all are production now, so it’s time to clock in. 😂 This week, she’s catching you up on the chaos, the changes happening behind the scenes at CockTales, and why some updates may need to stay on mute until the keys are in hand.Then we’re getting into the real questions that need answers: Are your friends’ former hookups permanently off limits? Is keeping it a secret worse than actually doing it? Have you ever seen a man so fine you didn’t care if you or your homegirl got him—as long as SOMEBODY did? Why don’t men listen? And when does “being the bigger person” stop being maturity and start feeling like self-abandonment?Plus, Kiki wants to know why everybody is so serious on the internet, why some of y’all stopped listening to CockTales, what brought you back, and most importantly…what’s going to make you stay?Grab a drink, get in the comments, and answer the damn questions. QTNA. 🍸VB Health- Try DRIVE BOOSTGet 10% off DRIVE BOOST from VB Health with code COCKTALES visit vb.health todayContact us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comYou can also leave a voicemail instead of an email for advice and cocktales!! 404-692-0039Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game  www.imcurioustoknow.comBali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/BaliGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoCHAPTERS00:00:00 - Introduction00:00:38 - Weight Loss Journey00:04:02 - Podcast Updates00:05:33 - Rebranding and Team Expansion00:10:05 - Cocktail Recipe: The Red Receipt00:10:59 - Life Updates00:15:20 - Getting Ready for the Night00:15:48 - Travel Plans and Life Updates00:16:19 - Moving and Packing00:16:58 - Friendship and Relationship Dynamics00:22:35 - Attraction and Friend Group Dynamics00:25:00 - Questions and Reflections00:25:30 - VB Health Supplements Promotion00:28:53 - Being the Bigger Person00:31:06 - Venting and Managing Anger00:32:58 - Internet Arguments and Misplaced Anger00:33:30 - Making the Internet Fun Again00:35:00 - Feedback and Future of the Podcast00:37:15 - Bali Trip Announcement00:38:33 - Closing Remarks and AnnouncementsBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-with-kiki--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the host and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoCocktales With KikiInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on Cocktales?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form

Jul 6 · 52m

This week, Kiki is taking roll call: Production, where y’all at?From the pressure to be a “girl’s girl” to the very real question of whether we need everybody to like us, Kiki gets into the complicated ways we show up for other women, and when “support” turns into blindly backing somebody who may be dead wrong.She also addresses the nosy-bitch paradox: Why do we hate when people are in our business… but suddenly know exactly who to call when we need the tea? Is being nosy actually the problem, or is it what people do with the information once they get it?Plus, Kiki shares a show update, talks about the difference between online personas and real life, answers an advice letter from a listener who feels like she has made her boyfriend her whole personality, and makes a case for maintaining your own life...even in a loving relationship.Grab your Neighborhood Watch cocktail, mind your business, or don’t, and join the conversation in the comments.VB Health- Try SOAKING WETGet 10% off SOAKING WET from VB Health with code COCKTALES visit vb.health todayContact us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comYou can also leave a voicemail instead of an email for advice and cocktales!! 404-692-0039Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game  www.imcurioustoknow.comBali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/BaliGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-with-kiki--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the host and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoCocktales With KikiInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on Cocktales?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form