Digital Love Diaries: Online Dating Tips

This episode we interviewed Joy Alicia, author of the book SO Drunk A TOOTH’s Gotta GO ( )!!!! We explore her book, as we talk about the modern method of meeting potential romantic or sexual partners through websites, apps, or social media platforms.

It typically begins with users creating profiles that showcase photos, bios, and personal interests, offering a curated digital first impression. Most apps use algorithms based on location, preferences, or behavior to suggest matches, streamlining the process of connection.

Once matched, users enter a communication phase where messaging becomes a key tool for gauging compatibility. Online dating also carries symbolic language—emojis, profile photos, or even ghosting all convey unspoken messages about intent, interest, or rejection.

This digital landscape has transformed how people form relationships, offering convenience and access while also introducing new challenges around authenticity, expectations, and emotional connection. Support this podcast at —