35. Why does it Bother Me When Someone Doesnt Like Me- Even When I Like Myself?

In this week’s episode, we discuss why it can bother you so much when someone doesn’t like you—even when you genuinely like yourself—and what may be happening underneath the urge to either change their mind or figure out why. We also explore how knowing how God views you can completely change the way you interpret someone else’s disapproval.

What you’ll learn in this episode: How it’s possible to have healthy self-esteem without pretending that every feature, habit, or behavior is your absolute favorite. The two common ways we respond when someone doesn’t like us—and how being preoccupied with others’ disapproval is actually a massive distraction.

How to uncouple someone else’s approval or disapproval from the way you view yourself. IG: @clearernotlouder