Why Men Are Tired Of Dating Feat @TheKellyGshow and @LamaBean

This week on So Shameless , we’re joined by Kelly G, “The Drill Fairy,” and Lama, owner of Slyte Studios , for an episode packed with controversial opinions, hilarious dating stories, and some uncomfortable conversations about Black culture. We kick things off with Lama asking a question that might make you rethink your entire circle: What’s the difference between a real friend and somebody you’re just cool with?

Then things heat up as we discuss Davinci’s controversial interview with Cam Newton, where he calls Americans lazy and incompetent compared to people from other countries and argues that Black Americans need to stop focusing on slavery. Tahoe and the crew dive into the growing diaspora wars between Black Americans, Africans, and Caribbean people , and whether these conversations are doing more harm than good.

But the real fireworks begin when we turn to modern dating! Are women expecting men to prove their worth without offering anything in return?

Kelly G admits that some women test men to see how much money and effort they can get out of them, while Traum points out that men do their fair share of dry begging too. Are women taking advantage of men in today’s dating culture?

Should men always pay for dates? And why are Black Americans, Africans, and Caribbean people still fighting amongst themselves?

Lama shares some WILD dating experiences, including breaking up with a woman over an expensive meal, refusing to pay for an uninvited friend, and ending things with someone who ordered too much food and took the leftovers home! Meanwhile, Kelly reveals she’d rather have a man pay one of her bills than take her on a date, sparking a conversation about financial expectations, boundaries, and the difference between being a good man and a nice guy .

Are men being used, or are they simply failing to establish boundaries? Are women asking for too much, or are men expecting too much in return?

Tap in with Tahoe, Traum, Kelly G, Lama, and the So Shameless crew for another episode where NOTHING is off limits! Drop your thoughts in the comments: What’s the biggest red flag when it comes to dating and money?

Socials: Kelly @TheKellyGshow Lama @LamaBean