The Male Experience Vs The Female Experience

Part Two of So Shameless gets into the battle between the male and female experience — and whether we’re so busy proving who has it harder that we’ve stopped actually listening to each other. We start with men living in survival mode and whether conversations about men’s struggles are too often dismissed by immediately comparing them to what women experience.

Are men genuinely not being heard — or do men sometimes do the exact same thing when women talk about their problems? Then we take that argument to social media.

Do some women go online specifically looking for opportunities to tear men down? Do men do the same thing to women?

And how much of what we believe about the opposite sex is actually OUR opinion versus us falling victim to internet mob mentality ? From there, we get into the mental load at home.

Women often describe feeling like their brains NEVER get to turn off — remembering what needs to be bought, cleaned, scheduled, handled and taken care of. Are men contributing enough inside the home?

And even when women say they’re overwhelmed, is it sometimes difficult for them to actually relinquish control and allow someone else to handle things? Then comes the money conversation: Should men ALWAYS pay for everything?

Who actually benefits from that arrangement? Does paying make a man a provider, or can traditional financial expectations create unhealthy dynamics for BOTH people in a relationship?

Speaking of financial trauma, Tahoe made the mistake of taking his daughter to Sephora and discovered that apparently looking pretty costs approximately the same amount as a small mortgage. 😂 We also ask why sleeping with someone else after being cheated on is sometimes treated like a flex. If somebody hurt you by cheating, does revenge sex actually make YOU feel better — or are you still allowing their actions to dictate yours?

And finally, we get into emotional intelligence, adversity and what happens when men allow hurt, ego and emotion to control how they respond when life doesn’t go their way. Men vs. women.

Money. Relationships.

Household responsibilities. Revenge sex.

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