Navigating Eight Pregnancy Losses, Endometriosis, and Finding Community with Deze

What does it mean to pursue motherhood while navigating repeated loss—and make space for the parts of yourself beyond fertility? In this episode of Sisters in Loss, Deze, the lifestyle blogger behind , shares her experience of eight pregnancy losses with no live births at the time of our conversation.

After getting married, she experienced a miscarriage, followed by an ectopic pregnancy and six additional losses. Her journey also included an endometriosis diagnosis and the removal of her right fallopian tube.

Deze opens up about the mental and emotional toll of fertility challenges, the support she found in Facebook communities, and how blogging about life beyond fertility gave her space to connect with other parts of herself. Whether you have experienced recurrent pregnancy loss, an ectopic pregnancy, or an endometriosis diagnosis—or want to better support someone who has—this conversation offers connection and a reminder that you don't have to navigate it alone.

Key Takeaways: Pregnancy loss carries an emotional toll. Deze's experience of eight losses highlights the grief that can accompany the journey toward motherhood.

Fertility challenges can involve complex medical experiences. She shares her experience with endometriosis, ectopic pregnancy, and the removal of her right fallopian tube.

Community can help ease isolation. Deze found support in Facebook groups where she could connect with others navigating similar experiences.

Your identity extends beyond fertility. Blogging and creating content unrelated to fertility gave her space to enjoy other parts of her life.

You don't have to navigate loss alone. Her story underscores the value of finding people and spaces where your experience is understood. 🔗 Important Links: Pre-Order Never Healing Alone: How to Navigate Grief and Find Community After Pregnancy and Infant Loss Coming April 6, 2027 [Preorder Now at Your Favorite Bookseller] (Available on Amazon , Barnes & Noble , , Target , and Hudson Bookseller ) For media inquiries: Riverchild Media | For bulk orders: BenBella Books Learn more about Sisters in Loss and our Doula Training: Take the Healing Archetypes Quiz: Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok: @sistersinloss Join the private Sisters in Loss Facebook community: Join Us