Single, Available... Why is Nobody Approaching Me?

Single, Available… So Why Is Nobody Approaching Me? You're single, you're over 40 or 50, and you're ready to meet someone.

You're social, you're friendly, and you're putting yourself out there… or are you? Why does meeting someone feel so much harder at this stage of life?

In this episode of Saying Yes Again , Tony and Dr. Lisa explore the realities of meeting people after 40, especially when you're divorced, starting over, or simply not interested in dating apps.

From recognizing romantic interest to making the first move, we're having a practical, honest, and sometimes funny conversation about what it really takes to create opportunities for connection. We discuss where to meet people organically, the difference between being friendly and flirting, whether women should initiate romantic interest, and how to recognize when the attraction is mutual.

Because finding love again isn't always about waiting for the right person to show up. Sometimes it's about being intentional enough to start a conversation.

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