Talk Dirty To Me: The Secret To Better Relationship Communication with Shan Boodram

Besties, I know that last Mercury Retrograde had some of y'all thinking you developed telepathy... but your partner still can't read your mind. This week, we sit down with Certified Sex Educator and Host of the Lovers by Shan podcast, Shan Boodram, for one of those conversations that will have you looking at your relationships a little differently.

We talk about why your communication style might be setting you and your romantic partners up for disappointment, the power of expressing desire, and how feeling emotionally safe changes the way you love. We also get into the idea of "serving" your partner, whether compatibility is something you find or create and the surprising ways love can completely shift your perspective.

Plus, Kamie and Shan share some personal stories about what it really feels like to build a relationship where both people choose each other every single day. Follow Shan: @shanboodram on IG, @shanboody on TikTok, and her podcast LOVERS by Shan Follow Kamie @kamiecrawford on TikTok and Relationshit @relationshit on IG for more, besties.

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