You Abandoned Me, Stop Calling it a Breakup ft. Shaun Ross

Shaun Ross was the first professional male model with albinism, and in this conversation he tells Shan about the breakup he refuses to call a breakup, because he was never in the room for it. Two hours into an 11-hour flight home from Europe, he watched his partner leave on the home camera, and he later learned that plenty of people had known how his partner felt (everyone except him).

Shan explains why the person who leaves has often finished grieving long before the other person finds out. Follow Shaun Instagram → TikTok → YouTube → Want more Lover?

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