Living in My Impossible: Trans Visibility with Cigo

Send us Fan Mail If you think that the life you want is impossible, then this episode is for you! Today on Dem Bois Podcast, I talk to Cigo and we discuss how the impossible can become possible.

Cigo shares his journey of self-discovery as a Trans man of color, discussing his experiences with top surgery, coming out to his family, and the importance of visibility in the LGBTQ community. Our discussion emphasizes the significance of mental health and the role of chosen family in fostering a sense of belonging and acceptance.

We talk: 12:11 - Coming out to family 24:01- Resources for Trans visibility 32:04 Family Dynamics and Support 33:34 - Navigating relationships with parents 44:45 - Visibility = Possibility 52:22 - Support systems and chosen family Episode References: The Alchemist (novel) PFLAG TransFamily El Canto Del Colibri Read more about Cigo in his bio below: Cigo Govea-Orozco (he/him/his) is a first-generation Latine nonprofit professional and advocate. He graduated from the University of California, Riverside with a degree in Philosophy and currently works as a Development Assistant at TruEvolution , a nonprofit focused on health equity and LGBTQ+ advocacy.

Cigo is passionate about conversations around mental health, family, fitness, and trans visibility. In his free time, he enjoys running, hiking, and catching sunsets as a way to stay grounded and connected to himself IG: Cigo24_ Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc.

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