Decentering Men So a Better Man Shows Up Is Still Centering Men

Pre-order Decentering Men: The Definitive Guide to Choosing Yourself by Sherese Charlie Taylor, out March 16, 2027 from Abrams Press: If you started decentering men because someone promised you a better man on the other side, this episode asks you to take an honest look at that motivation. Charlie explains why decentering men in hopes of attracting a better partner still keeps him at the center, and what it takes to own your thoughts, your dreams, and your decisions instead.

Then, in Charlie’s Advice, a 20-year-old listener asks how to build confidence when everything about her future feels uncertain, and Charlie answers with steps she can start using right away. TOOLS FROM THIS EPISODE Start Knowing Yourself Again is for the woman who has spent years making decisions around what someone else would think and is ready to find out what she actually wants.

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